Our experiences of past, our feelings drive us. Our responses to the outside world is not because of anyone but totally depends on our perspective. We respond to our own perceptions and understanding of the event, situations, circumstances, people etc. There is no definition of good or bad, right or wrong, favorable or unfavorable but we maintain our own dictionary as per our convenience and happiness, later associate with the world and start referring at any time of the life. So if one decided to be happy then no one can stop that feeling of happiness be it any situation e.g. have you ever noticed bikers during rain they immediately find shelters under bridges, trees etc and not get wet else they can continue their journey in the rain and get wet. In the same manner we feel whatever we want to feel not situation or others want us to feel….If we have happy feelings then we know happiness and maintain happy dictionary and if feelings are vice e versa then also we are the primary source of those feelings because we maintain that directory and not ready to edit. Whatever is happening in your life is not because of anybody or any situation, things are happening because you want that to happen knowingly or unknowingly… Life is so simple lets take a paper and start maintaining your own directory with edit mode and celebrate yourself….
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LIEBSTER AWARD

Hello my dear readers! This is my second nomination for this prestigious award, as a young blogger it is very important for me. A big thank you to Sngms for nominating me. His blog is very inspirational, do check and all his blog posts are amazing. sngms.wordpress.com Now lets spare a moment to check all my answers:
1.According to you, what role does religion play in a person’s life? Its very controversial question RELIGION not only the word but i believe for most of the individuals its become identity. When religion comes means just follow anything without asking. Religion controls the human and for me religion is what gives us happiness with the ecology check as no one can be individually happy. Happiness always attract happiness and its magnetic so i cant be happy alone. My happiness needs happy people, happy nation, global happiness which is difficult with any one religion. So for me religion is humanity.
2.According to you what should be done to promote humanity among all humans? We should enter into the mode of accept everything with its true nature, encouraging every human while showing them they are worthy of anything opportunities are equal for all and never compare your journey with others e.g you were watching netflix till midnight and tired in the morning so how can you compare yourself with the morning energy of any individual who had good 8 hours sleep in the night. When people started accepting themselves the way they are it would be great gift to humanity.
3.Which elements can be the most hindering in the development of a nation? Kids of today are the nation of tomorrow and their right growth and development is missing. Fear of failure and fear of acceptance are two most important things which cant be denied but sadly no one thinks its as important as school curriculum.
4.What was that moment when you were most happy? My happiest moment is my visualizations where i see my self in next 3 years from now.
5.Who contributed the most to the education of women in our country, India? Women itself
6.Who give you the highest importance in science and religion? And why? Science is never my interest but i relate most of the things science and religion till the time i was in early 20s use to follow my born religion with all rituals without even getting the answers to my questions, as time passes i understood most important and big religion is humanity which need to be served.
7.Who is the ideal of your life? And why? I cant name any as it keeps changing the more i learn about people more i fall for them as ideal, everybody carries some interesting things inside them not only humans but nature too so my ideals are so many in their own beautiful natures.
8.When are you writing and why? Today is 6 th september 2019 and i am writing from India. I believe through writing i can send my message to different people at same time which is difficult to give in my 1 to 1 session.
9.Do you like to do social service? If ever has any special service done? Yes i love to do social service specially for the people who has no hope for living or thinks everything can be resolved with ignoring.
10.What do you do for environmental protection? I dont waste paper.
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My Questions:
1. What’s your favorite meal of the day?
2. When did you begin your blog?
3. What’s your blog about?
4. Do you own a pet? If so, what kind and what’s it’s his/her name?
5. Do you think meteorologist really know what they’re predicting? and, if they get the prediction wrong, do you think they should still get paid?
6. Winter or Summer Sports, what’s your favorite?
7. What is your least favorite chore to do?
8. Read a book or watch a movie, which is your preference?
9. How many of you, the bloggers find that 10 questions are too much?
10. Do you find that it’s difficult to ask 10 questions ?
Thank you so much for your patience and time for reading the most difficult thing is to nominate 10 only as for my nominations list is too long… again i would like to thank sngms for my nomination..Kindly check his beautiful blog : sngms.wordpress.com
SELF DOUBT ATTRACT FEAR
We get what we asked, but sadly most of the times this mankind is into self doubt and involved in what, how, when, where etc. Self doubt attract only fear from the universe with their strong believe of waiting for the right time or not ready for the opportunity coming at this time and there is a possibility of failure. Yes that’s 100% correct if raw material of product failure is getting collected in your mind then no one can stop production and delivery. Fear of failure is self constructed and properly planned, so what ever one plans will surely get. Planning is the start of any project in life whether personal or professional followed by implementing. Fear of failure is never because of wrong planning but its your own self doubt which attracts fear. Self doubt knocks you when you try to match others or feel uncomfortable in any of the situation, necessity is to be parent to yourself immediately and protect yourself from that situation the way parents protect to child in all weathers of life. While doing this you are transforming your self doubt into self confidence and attracting happiness….This is miracle
CREATE HAPPINESS BY BEING NICE WITH YOU AND BEAT SELF DOUBT
The magic and shortcut to happiness is allow all emotions and live them with their true nature. Enjoy every new sunshine of sun as every first activity of new born is enjoyed by parents with excitement. Joy is a purifier and energetic eraser to erase old pattern of self doubt, yes that’s true you can always use this magical eraser to erase any self holding patterns from trying new things in the life. As we all know the creativity of universe the higher power is still not in reach of man so how can we accept that what is good for one should be good for others. We should learn something from higher power and respect his creativity of making humans that no two individuals looks same, how creative God is in making us all and he is not expecting us to cheer for his creativity but trying to teach us a life lesson that everybody is beautiful and competent enough to achieve any success in life. We humans have no right to pass judgements on failures or success of others or ourself as we all are made by one source and when we show self doubt that is showing doubt on Gods creativity. Similarly when we show doubt on others again we question the creativity of supreme power. Beat self doubt by expecting your self the way you are because you have been made to live your life as per your standards but not to copy others standards. The key to your happiness and success is inside you and feel your all emotions and let them pass you. No wonder some times clouds cover the sun for a while but after rain we again have clear sky and much brighter sun, in the same manner never hold any feeling for a long let it comes and feel the intensity to clear your emotions. We all believe that our body needs to detox but why we forget that emotional detox is more important. Let’s be nice to ourself first and then to others by accepting each other as a beautiful creativity of higher power and we don’t know what’s Gods expectations while creating all of us differently. But one thing is sure that God created all of us for a unstoppable success and happiness journey and we humans are ruining Gods plan by not living our own souls but trying to copy and match others who too are engage in matching someone ……. Let’s try this to create happiness while beating self doubt
SELF DOUBT IS HANDED OVER FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION
The most important thing which is handed over to all generation is self doubt without any alteration. Yes that’s true if we want every soul to be happy and live fully with their happiness and their unique design the way higher power created them we should eradicate self doubt completely. As we know nothing is difficult but important is to educate everyone that we are the one who is giving energy everyday to self doubt. Self doubt is more dangerous than any visible threat to mankind. No one nation, religion etc alone is victim of self doubt but its every where like a new moms instruct to child who is learning how to walk careful else you fall, I can understand that’s motherly care but seed of self doubt is also planted in young mind which is going to grow slowly. In today’s world sometime or other time every one faces self doubt but they give different fancy names to their self doubt sometimes they call it intelligent decision, situation based action etc. But if we see it all started from safest environment of motherly affection as target section to eradicate self doubt from world is females who are entering to motherhood the way we have parental checkup, in the same way there should be some courses which are compulsory to attend like confidence and trust development in the new born rather than handing over to them self doubt which we too receive in one of the form.. Let’s not hand over self doubt to coming generation by controlling their actions and showing them we want them safe and we are experienced etc… We will witness a beautiful happy world just to control pur experience, emotions and thoughts….I understand its difficult but medicines are mostly bitter….
EXPECTING APPROVAL FROM OTHERS IS ALSO SELF DOUBT
Self doubt is the most dangerous thing and when we constantly look for others to give us approval for our actions in our assignments that is because we doubt on our self worth. We should take approvals from us rather then others and that approval shows our confidence. Confidence is the antidote of self doubt, little of self doubt is natural. Self doubt is none other than our internal dialogue and it become dangerous when we just listen and start believing in internal communication like don’t do, what others will think etc. You are the higher authority for yourself and you don’t need any approval from anyone. You are enough for yourself, no wonder what ever decision you take today ends up in success or failure most healthy thing is you took decision. Bud faces so many weather changes to bloom and every body loves the flower and what if that bud too get stuck in the decision weather ready for rain in autumn or extended winters etc. The most dangerous thing is your indecisiveness that is also another form of self doubt. Practice to take decision without thinking much on after effects of decision. Most of the times we set our focus on problem and not on the solution that too give birth to self doubt. It is very easy and convenient to handle this kind of self doubt while shifting attention from problem to solution. Self doubt is when you stop connecting with your self and always surrounded with the people where most of your energy is getting utilised matching that group of people. Save your energy spend time with yourself and listen to yourself then act accordingly, see your today is so better then yesterday. Compare yourself with yourself you will see how gracefully you are growing every day….. Self doubt will vanish the day you started looking for the things you possess. Show your gratitude and grow your confidence slowly…..Magical word is believe start believing in yourself …
SELF DOUBT
Self doubt is against the law of universe, it is same as breaking any other man made rule. For people man made rules are more important other than rules of universe and don’t even think once when it comes to break the rule of universe. Give yourself a moment to look around nature how every thing is happening or who is controlling the everyday growth of seed to plant or who sets alarm for the bud to bloom and who checks if bud forgets to bloom, how birds receive the message of changing weather it all comes under the rule of universe and they all follow the rules without any question to universe. We all know how universe is taking care of those who follow the rules without breaking and changing. Now come to man kind which is the most blessed creation of higher power, but everyday humans are pushing that higher power to rethink and doubt on this creation man kind, because of violating the universe law and one of is self doubt. Yes when humans engage in self doubt that’s also one way of walking against the law of universe. Everyone faces a little of self doubt in when they question themselves, that’s normal and if asking question to one self continues going that is not healthy and violate the law of universe. One gets mentally paralyse. If self doubt becomes habit that is going to prevent one from grabbing the opportunities which universe is bringing for you… The best way to move self doubt is to acknowledge it first then push it away and get yourself in coordination with laws of universe…. The best way to accept everything in their original manner …..and fall in love with universe let universe handle everything……See magic and magician is universe your role is to enjoy every event happening in your life…
WHAT IS YOUR DREAM ?
I am sure that you have a beautiful dream. Will you achieve your dream in your journey of life? What are your plans for your dream? How strong is your believe about your dream accomplishment? Will you actually achieve your dream in your life? How are you so sure that you are going to achieve your dream and it’s not going to stay long as a dream? Answers to all above questions will take you nearer to your dreams and you too will add your name in the list of dream achievers. Every success, life achievements etc are dream to some one. The difference is some follow their dream without fear of failing and others call themselves smart and calculative who wait for the right time. Right time for dreamers is the moment they saw dream and take their dream like a seed themselves become gardener to that dream. With the time and every passing day the way seed faces challenges of changing weather but gardener knows all tricks to take care of seed until it blooms, so be a gardener to your dream and show only your believe to your dream til the time it flourishes and world witness…. I am sure the moment you decide to be a gardener to your dream, that’s the turning point in your story and be ready very soon world will share your story as a journey to success with one word DREAM….
PRACTICE TO ACCEPT EVERYTHING WITH ITS NATURE
The most important thing in the universe is energy and we all are made up of energy. Energy is different than money, as money can be saved for future but energy can’t be saved and it keeps changing every micro second but we can decide the flow of our energy and it grows where it flows. How much is the possibility of controlling situations? Is it human nature to control situations or they have to break the rule of universe when ever they try to control anything e.g feelings, emotions, events, people etc resultant decrease of energy. As the most important thing who witness every little change in the universe is universe itself and imagine how convenient it is to go against the flow of wind. So everything what ever is happening because of the nature of universe have you ever think of how fish learns to swim, who teaches birds how to fly, who decides how much plant can grow in a day, who control the speed of earths movement etc. all follow one golden rule…..rule of universe as it is clear energy, power who manages everything is the universe and if we too accept the way things are coming to us as universe is sending and our duty is to show trust in universe stay calm rest everything will be managed by universe itself. Most of the times we humans break the rule of universe and try to manipulate things as we believe that is beneficial for us but sadly that is taking happiness and unstoppable success away from us… One simple rule to any success, happiness is embrace things the way they are coming to you no matter the message you see but one unseen and unheard message is universe is sending some communication to you and your duty is stay calm believe in universe, in the way child trust it’s parents when they drop him or her to school that they are going to pick him back on time…..learn child’ trust on parents and use that trust on universe…see miracles
SELF DOUBT IS LIKE SLOW POISON
The most dangerous thing which hold people back is self doubt. Self doubt is when we doubt our potential power, in simple words there is a fight inside us of our own two parts e.g where one part wants to try new thing and other part reminds what people will say or what if it fails etc. Self doubt comes in your mind when you stuck somewhere in the comparison mode of yours with others and that too seeing on their latest updates on social media. Let me help you in understand that all those updates are only to feed your self doubt. A better way to handle this kind of feeling is self comparison, compare yourself to yourself. You will feel confident and confidence is antidote to self doubt, see how far you have come, how gracefully you kept going and your growth as a human being. Most of the times we humans are not aware of our own inner strength and that get wasted because of our unawareness reason self doubt, slowly that inside strength get expired like other things on earth, as we know everything comes with expiry date. So don’t feed your self doubt and use your strength believe in you listen your callings, do what resonates with you and you enjoy most. No wonder you serve humanity with some great contribution of yours and add your name in the list of great contributors to the world. The great people to whom we called contributors are not different or born different we all are same eat same food, breathe same air, drink same water etc. The difference is one which is they don’t feed them self doubt but their diet is believe in them what ever be the situation. They hold hand tightly of self believe and keep moving with the believe of their own inner strength. Do you know the reason why we have few success stories because rest feed them with self doubt because of their own fears and reasons which they too have not witnessed.. Yes self doubt is like a slow poison and equally harmful like any other poison…..