CONQUER YOUR MIND

Conquer your mind and open the doors of all possibilities in your life.

You are born to make the impossibles possible.

You are what your mind believes not the world believe and once your mind believes in your word the world will follow.

The first step to conquer the mind is to release yourself from limiting beliefs e.g not the right time, every one has to live their suffering, your past karmas are not good, time is not in your favor in totality your inner voice.

Secondly don’t listen to what people think about you, their opinion can’t define you either your abilities. You are a beautiful creation of God and God is there with you, in you and all in your actions. No one can compete with creator/God, Why are you worrying?

It hardly matters if you are at number 1 on a scale of 1 to 10 which has been prepared by people as per their experiences but do they know what is their number on God’s scale and your number. No, they don’t know because of their continuous effort to remind you, your number 1 proves that their number is 0 at God’s scale.

God/supreme power has sent us all on this planet with a thought that we all will love, support, and spread positivity and happiness on this planet while accepting each other with their authentic self. God’s purpose was never to others feel that they are not accepted because of XYZ reason. God’s purpose to give space to humanity to spread its wings. Release yourself from self-doubt and conquer your mind and world, why to worry when Supreme power/God is on your side.

Live your life to the fullest and let the world know the reason you are born to unlock your potential and add your name to the list of great souls who have contributed the world as per their potentials.

CONQUER YOUR MIND and get ready to conquer the world.

YOU are God’s favorite belief in your potential…..

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YOUR FRIEND AND ENEMY IS YOUR MIND

It is mentioned in the BHAGAVAD GITA Chapter-6, Verse 5

A man must elevate himself by his mind, not degrade himself. The mind is the friend of the conditioned soul, and his enemy as well.”

To make the mind our friend we must understand how the mind works and its nature at all levels.

The mind operates at four levels:

Mind: It is the place where thoughts originate and we call it to mind factory.

Intellect: Here analyzing of the facts takes place before any decision.

Heart: When emotions are attached to a person or thing.

Ego: Ego can be identified with the accomplishments and becomes proud of success, wealth, learning, social circle.

Mind, Intellect, Heart, Ego are different levels where mind functions. It varies from each other one less other more e.g mind-intellect, mind-intellect-heart, mind-intellect-ego, mind-intellect-heart, etc.

As per Bhagavad Gita ” A man must elevate himself by his mind, not degrade himself” which means one should use the intellect to control the mind.

In simple words mind just need the pleasure and it automatically gets attracted to the pleasure. If we don’t introduce love and hatred, likes and dislikes, etc the dual feelings it will find pleasure in one thing only which is peace, happiness, the happiness of all, peace for all that mind is your friend.

I never said you leave your happiness but when to reset your mind with the focus happiness for all it will come back to you as I already discuss the law of the universe and how it works. You need to focus 100% where you leave to rest on the supreme power/Universe/ God.

The mind is your friend and enemy both depending upon your conscious self when your consciousness is in your control mind is your friend and when you are in the control of senses and mind it becomes your enemy.

Practice to control senses and befriend with the mind.

I repeat it is a skill which needs practice…

Happy friendship day…your best friend is your mind…you deserve the friendship of your mind….

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SEE GOOD IN EVERY SITUATION

It is not hard but not very easy, one needs to train the mind to see good in every situation.

Every day we face different situations some easy and some very negative which can fill us with hatred and revenge or some times we doubt the creator on being partial while designing our life and other’s life.

Why there are struggles in one’s life humans miss the important point that those learning are not for one specific person, the creator wants to offer some very precious experience which is on the other side of the wall and that is the test of humans that who climbs the wall with fun and excitement rather than checking up the bruises on legs while climbing and feeling the pain.

But the reward is for the one who climbs with fun, excitement, gratitude so always remember and train your mind and focus on the good and enjoy every experience.

The sooner you start enjoying your experiences with a focus to see good in every situation, the quicker you will attract the best version of you.

Initially, you need practice, eventually, you will become a magnet who automatically sees good in every situation…

Start training your mind to see good in everything with small things

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MY KARMA IS THE REFLECTION OF MY SOUL

Sometimes in the life we have a feeling in-spite of all good things, honest effort to nurture the relation with particular person that person is giving us back a fake relation. Many times question comes WHY should I take negative when I give positive? Answer to this question is very simple I am my soul and all my actions are the reflection of my soul not the reflection of others action. Most of the times we ignore the truth and feels bad, anxious, on others cold reaction on our warm feelings of love, understanding etc. We pat our feelings lets give this person one more chance or that doesn’t deserve me or that person is waste f time and energy. But the reality is our karma is driving our action and our soul is filled with love, kindness, gratitude, honesty and that is the reason we are able to give positive energy because we have all that inside us which has no connection with others action. Shift your focus and see you are giving what you have not borrowing from others and giving. You have all good inside you that makes you humble, kind human because of your karma and your soul. The soul which is inside you reflect in your karma. Later that kindness of your karma can change the world and make every one a kind human because with your karma you are activating law of karma which says do go good and good will come back, the energy which is going out will comeback, what you sow shall reap, everything is boomerang, understand your karma and let your karma be a light in the universe to make this planet a beautiful place. We simply need to accept and understand the law of karma: what is happening to us is because we deserve that, there is a energy which controls everything good or bad , our acceptance of the situations, experiences without asking why leads us to good karma…

EVERYONE’S PERSPECTIVE IS RIGHT

Everyone has their perspective and we can’t decide whose perspective is right and whose perspective is wrong.

The difference of perspective is not based on right or wrong but it based on the different experiences of individuals and their journeys. It is not correct to say that someone has bitter experiences in life that is the reason their perspective is wrong.

We can’t justify any one’s perspective but to understand and respect every perspective is on to us. Perspective is the lens through which we see the world and everyone has their lens, all lens are right. Sometimes they can be blurry but not wrong so to respect and accept everyone’s perspective becomes one’s duty for humanity. But it is also important to understand that perspective is not truth but one’s experience so no one can reach any conclusion for the basis of perspective.

Everyone is entitled to their lens which is not of justification truth. One should not force others to see, understand, and accept things from their perspective because they have a better experience of life. We all are different then each other and universe teaches us this, when you see your fingers they all are in different size and every finger is equally important, you can’t decide which is least important and which is most important in the similar manner universe gives us different experiences of life which differentiate everyone’s perspective but never defines right or wrong.

We have so many fights, hatred, revenge just to protect one’s perspective and to prove that others perspective is wrong and ignorant of that every perspective is based on the different experiences.

If we understand the relationship between perspective and experience it would be a gift to humanity.

Perspective is just one’s experience not the definition of truth…..

UNIVERSE IS WORKING FOR YOU

The entire universe is working in our favor.

Every day I live this that universe always is at work for us and gives us selective options which we asked, not others asked for us and there are no limitations in the working of the universe but we limit our thoughts because of our limited awareness about the universe and how it works.

The majority of the people believe that life is not good with their belief they send messages to the universe that they are expecting life to no good and we should that universe works on our command and they asked for themselves life which is not good. The universe always expects us to show our thoughts and universe show us a miracle to make our thoughts possible.

Always set your focus on what exactly you want from life and once the focus is set universe starts working to which humans call a miracle. The miracle is your clarity of thoughts and what you want from your life.

The universe understands your desires and grants you, your desires once the message is sent. We attract what we want, the kind of life we receive is because we asked for it not the universe wants to give us. Don’t go for possibilities while preparing your desires everything is possible for the universe just get yourself ready to receive.

The universe is too good at its work if you are not getting what you have asked for is because of your belief system who reminds you that you are not fortunate enough to get things so easily in life or there is struggle always on your way.

We attract our thoughts and universe to understand our thoughts and give us the same life as we expect we should get from our thought system. If we have fears in our thoughts universe grants us fears too. People who have negative thoughts universe give them the same life and people with positive thoughts get positive life as per the law of the universe.

Thoughts are powerful and communicate with the universe for you all the time, control your thoughts to get the desired life.

The secret is the universe creates and provides all the possibilities of the thought we focused on.

This is the supreme secret when we understand and start living our lives with this belief we are ready to enter the new phase of our life. Give focus to your thoughts and get ready for the life you asked because the universe is kind, loves you the most, and is working only for you…..

DRIVE YOUR EMOTIONS AND TAKE DECISION

Emotions drive human behavior. When you sharpen your emotional skills you make your self stronger. Once you gain control over your emotions you become mentally stronger who decide his emotional state.

There is no hard and fast rule or some specializations, certificates, minimum experience to control emotional state, fortunately, anyone can be better at controlling his/her emotional state. It is also a skill like other skills that anyone can adopt with regular practice and dedication.

Generally, when you experience uncontrollable emotions you don’t say anything just stuck with that emotion and put a pause on to your emotional state, then you don’t feel anything because you paused yourself at that moment and your behavior your reaction towards any event/situation is the reflection of that uncontrollable emotion which happened in past.

So it is very important to strengthen your emotional state and handle your emotions for your benefits. One very simple way of handling uncontrollable emotion is to re frame it with some other emotion which fuels your emotional state at that moment. Never allow yourself to be carried away with any emotion and take decisions based on emotion which is not rational.

Emotions and decisions are connected and with every decision, you are writing your future. Sometimes while taking a decision you believe a particular decision is based on logic but that is not true, the decision is based on emotional state.

Logic is also an emotional state but while deciding if can feel your intuitions or our strong gut feeling then that decision is free from any uncontrollable emotion because you can’t experience two states at one time. But when one master the skill of being emotionally intelligent then decision taken by them will be positive decisions.

To be emotionally intelligent one needs to understand from where particular emotion is coming and how this emotion can affect your decision and this decision is going to reflect in the future. All the detailed understanding of emotion will show the path to handle and drive till you reach your decision which will create your future with positivity and success.

With continuous practice, you will master the skill of listening and understanding your emotion and then take conscious decision remembering that your future is based on the decisions you take today.

Everything is a skill and skill needs practice and dedication, master the skill of driving your emotions with understanding of your emotions.

FORGIVENESS IS FOR OWN GROWTH AND HAPPINESS

Forgiveness is something we do to us, not to others.

When we hold on anger, hurt, pain that is going to harm us more rather other people.

Forgiveness frees us to live our lives in our way in the present where our anger, hatred, regret towards someone is giving up our power to that person and locked our self in that moment of past.

Forgiveness is not our kindness to others wrong, but we forgive people to love our self. When we hold the feeling of anger, hatred toward someone for a long then we surrender ourselves to negativity for someone’s action which is affecting our life more than theirs.

Release peacefully negativity toward others and shift your anger to forgiveness. Allow positive energy of the universe to hold you, embrace you. Forgiveness is an inner process where we let go of feelings and thoughts toward someone who we believe has wrong which includes our self.

Yes, that is also important to forgive ourselves for some action which we later regret. Forgiveness helps us to get free from the control of the other person who harmed us.

Forgiveness leads us to the feeling of empathy, limiting beliefs, a different perspective, for the one who hurt us. It is the best way to make other people realize that they have done wrong and when we forgive them they experience the feeling of guilt which is the most painful feeling. Whereas hold hatred and thinking of revenge is a never-ending cycle, which locks us in the past and darkens our present opportunities.

Our forgiving others for their sin is our step towards humanity and allowing our self to live in our present with happiness and attract success.

Forgiveness is not easy it makes you stronger and prepares you for future success.

HANDLE YOUR EMOTIONS

Handle your emotions or let your emotions handle you e.g when you react right away.

Reacting immediately to your emotional triggers can be a mistake and you need to forgive your emotional triggers.

Handling of emotions depends upon the awareness of the feeling, be aware of all your feelings and try to name your feelings and reason for particular feelings and how do you know about that feeling which part of yours is the communicator of that feeling to your brain.

Awareness is must don’t hide how do you feel from yourself, find out the reason for that specific feeling, stop blaming others, yourself, or your ignorance. Accept all your emotions gracefully with a relaxed mind to handle beneficially, use it as a fuel, not as a fire.

I am not supporting that you bury all emotions inside your heart they might explode and become destructive and put you at risk of heart disease. But my point is to handle emotions mindfully.

Acceptance of emotions is very important to handle them and later you can interchange the context of that emotion in a positive supporting way. Distraction plays a good role while handling emotion, distract yourself with some other memory. Go for a walk or excuse yourself for some time from that particular place so you can release unwanted emotions.

Communication is also important to handle the emotional outburst. Once you master the skill of handling your emotions then you can better understand other’s emotions too and the reason behind their action and their thought process which is the foundation of leadership skills in you.

Birth of humanity also starts when one recognizes the emotions of others and to understand others emotion one need to practice the skill of understanding and managing their own emotions. Everything is a skill and skill needs practice…

OVERCOME YOUR WEAKNESS

Weakness is the seed of strength.

We all have weaknesses inside us and the important is to recognize and accept our weakness gracefully.

The day we accept the seed of weakness then our love towards the weakness converts it into the strength. The biggest weakness of humans is their sins, wrong deeds, etc. The day human decides to accept all wrong actions of past that day they start the fresh chapter of life toward success and happiness.

Believe me if one wants to experience strength, power, success, happiness one must know the feeling of failure, weakness in some areas. If you know your biggest weakness that is the blessing because that area of your life will be your future strength which will bring success to you.

No need to feel sad for any of your weakness, your acceptance of weakness is the start of your new story. But important is to not allow any of your weakness to dominate your life. Weaknesses are your old habits holding your dreams and not allowing you to believe in the power of your dreams.

There is no magic to overcome weakness in one day you need to devote some time to your life to overcome the weaknesses of your life.

The first very important point in overcoming any weakness is your honesty towards yourself, yes your honest opinion and clear thinking because we almost lie with ourselves in our life daily.

In the process we have to fight with our self-ego too it is also one of the ingredients which need to address. Once the communication started then one has to find where does it come from, the reason for the weakness and story behind it which is supporting the weakness.

Now the weakness is known and the support reason for the presence of weakness, it will become easy to transform it into strength. Make a plan to overcome with new habits and practice every day in life. The day you start your journey towards overcoming your weakness with small plans you will feel confident and your goal will be clear.

Start your new unrecognizable story with your acceptance of your weaknesses, and transformation of weakness into strength…