Hello my dear readers! This is my second nomination for this prestigious award, as a young blogger it is very important for me. A big thank you to Sngms for nominating me. His blog is very inspirational, do check and all his blog posts are amazing. sngms.wordpress.com Now lets spare a moment to check all my answers:

1.According to you, what role does religion play in a person’s life? Its very controversial question RELIGION not only the word but i believe for most of the individuals its become identity. When religion comes means just follow anything without asking. Religion controls the human and for me religion is what gives us happiness with the ecology check as no one can be individually happy. Happiness always attract happiness and its magnetic so i cant be happy alone. My happiness needs happy people, happy nation, global happiness which is difficult with any one religion. So for me religion is humanity.

2.According to you what should be done to promote humanity among all humans? We should enter into the mode of accept everything with its true nature, encouraging every human while showing them they are worthy of anything opportunities are equal for all and never compare your journey with others e.g you were watching netflix till midnight and tired in the morning so how can you compare yourself with the morning energy of any individual who had good 8 hours sleep in the night. When people started accepting themselves the way they are it would be great gift to humanity.

3.Which elements can be the most hindering in the development of a nation? Kids of today are the nation of tomorrow and their right growth and development is missing. Fear of failure and fear of acceptance are two most important things which cant be denied but sadly no one thinks its as important as school curriculum.

4.What was that moment when you were most happy? My happiest moment is my visualizations where i see my self in next 3 years from now.

5.Who contributed the most to the education of women in our country, India? Women itself

6.Who give you the highest importance in science and religion? And why? Science is never my interest but i relate most of the things science and religion till the time i was in early 20s use to follow my born religion with all rituals without even getting the answers to my questions, as time passes i understood most important and big religion is humanity which need to be served.

7.Who is the ideal of your life? And why? I cant name any as it keeps changing the more i learn about people more i fall for them as ideal, everybody carries some interesting things inside them not only humans but nature too so my ideals are so many in their own beautiful natures.

8.When are you writing and why? Today is 6 th september 2019 and i am writing from India. I believe through writing i can send my message to different people at same time which is difficult to give in my 1 to 1 session.

9.Do you like to do social service? If ever has any special service done? Yes i love to do social service specially for the people who has no hope for living or thinks everything can be resolved with ignoring.

10.What do you do for environmental protection? I dont waste paper.

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My Questions:
1. What’s your favorite meal of the day?
2. When did you begin your blog?
3. What’s your blog about?
4. Do you own a pet? If so, what kind and what’s it’s his/her name?
5. Do you think meteorologist really know what they’re predicting? and, if they get the prediction wrong, do you think they should still get paid?
6. Winter or Summer Sports, what’s your favorite?
7. What is your least favorite chore to do?
8. Read a book or watch a movie, which is your preference?
9. How many of you, the bloggers find that 10 questions are too much?
10. Do you find that it’s difficult to ask 10 questions ?

Thank you so much for your patience and time for reading the most difficult thing is to nominate 10 only as for my nominations list is too long… again i would like to thank sngms for my nomination..Kindly check his beautiful blog : sngms.wordpress.com


Why people are engage in controlling situations/others ?

We all have limited time on this beautiful planet and sadly most of us are only engage in controlling others in different ways as per their own dictionary. Resultant when fail start again with more energy as they don’t want to leave any opportunity to prove that world revolves around them. Great they are on big project no wonder if any one get success in the mission of controlling situations/people and can share their control model with the world and can be applied to control environment global warming. Summer, Autumn, Winter, Spring, Rainy we enjoy all seasons never try to hold one season are waste our precious energy in holding the season, we enjoy all seasons with their own beauty same methodology apply to yourself and look for opportunities in all situations. Whatever situation/people you are meeting in your journey contributing to your success only… change your perspective of looking around and looking at yourself, everything will change…you too will witness your unstoppable success journey..


Perception is reality and it is true not just saying that what people perceive or think that is their reality.

Perception changes from person to person depends upon their experiences in the journey of life. No perception is wrong and no perception is right for all.

Perception is the data saved in your subconscious and based on that you see events/situations in a particular way. It is just like your computer machine which processes only the saved files which are again based on the storage, software of the machine.

Everything we see in the world exists in the mind first whether it is an idea, thought, invention, perception, etc.

Yes, this is true that everything in the world is perception only because every individual has different experiences in their life which form their general outlook about the world and people.

No perception is right and no perception is wrong it is every individual’s unique way of seeing the outer world based on their inner experience. If someone has to change their perception about a specific event, individual, etc they should change their inner experience about that particular event or individual.

Your perception is the lens through which you see the outer world and you can create any picture if you know how to reset the lens. Everything in the world is perception and perception depends upon the individual’s experience of their unique journey, but one can change the inner experience with the help of few techniques.

When your inner experience is not leading you towards your desired life change your perception and change everything.

Perception is linked with your beliefs, release yourself from the limiting beliefs, and change your life…


The universe always works mysteriously but gives a signal. It is like a cycle of all activities and events happening in our life, where everything is connected but because of ignorance, you must have not noticed the signs of the universe.

There is no rocket science if I say day follows the night and night follows the day, you all knew it what is there special to mention. How many of you are aware of the universal fact that day never follows a day, similarly night never follows night.

Pay your attention to the events of life when you feel that nothing is in your control or life is giving you painful experience those are the signals of the universe that show you the new path which will lead you to the life of your dreams.

When you observe your journey you will realize that universe always gives you signs, that you are becoming the person you want to be and everything you are going through or your are experiencing is the process of your dream goal.

The very simple way to understand the sign of the universe is joy/happiness when you can feel joy inside you while doing anything in life then that joy is the sign of the universe which says YES…you are doing the right thing.

Any physical pain like headache, migraine, diabetes, etc is also a sign of a universe that says something internally is not fine and you need to pay attention to your physical body which says something is wrong in your body or your life, please pay attention and fix it.

Your intuition, your inner-voice is also a sign of the universe that needs the alignment of your thoughts through meditation. Meditation never means to sit and close your eyes but meditation is any activity that helps you in engaging at the moment and there is no inner chatter.

If still you feel that there is no signal for you from the universe simply you can ask the universe to send you more clear signals but the question is who to ask in the universe that is the energy/ higher power/ Supreme power/ God name can be any as per your belief…

Ask and see the miracle of the signal from the universe…


Yes, the above statement is correct that our thoughts create our words, and based on our words we create our world. Our life depends upon the nature of our thoughts the more happy and positive thoughts create a happy life.

However, more stressed thoughts will create the same kind of life. We have millions of thoughts at one time which are the foundation of our life.

One should know what thoughts are required to know oneself, we are our thoughts and our mindset is the combination of thoughts. You already know that one needs the right mindset to achieve anything in life but you must know that mindset too depends upon the thoughts which create the life one wants.

The way one feels behaves, reacts, sees the world everything is based on the thoughts which take ingredients from one’s life experiences. In short one’s life is created by the thoughts they have.

Your thoughts are powerful to create your life and simultaneously they have an impact on other’s life also directly or indirectly. Time spent alone without any gadget and other than outside world interruptions is very important to create positive thoughts. When thoughts come into action they create destiny.

All your actions are based and guided by your thought process. When you feel in your life that you need to change your life or this is not what you expect from your actions in life then set your focus on the thoughts because your reality is based on the thoughts.

It is very simple and not a secret anymore that why only a few people are fortunate and get anything in the life they want and make their stories great stories because they know the power of thoughts and all the actions are guided by the thoughts.

It is not just saying but proved fact that thoughts can be used to create the life you want and desire…

If you want to change your life hen first change your thoughts which will support your desired life and see magic n your life…


The secret mantra of Thank you is magical which says never complain, no need to explain just say thank you for every action of others. By expressing gratitude you create the most powerful vibration in the universe for your journey.

The more you express gratitude the more quickly you attract magical experiences. This is not a chapter from any fairytale but the reality of universe workings.

Universe has abundance for you but you will receive when you ask with belief. The moment you ask something with full belief and no doubt you will witness the miracle in your life because the universe works with the vibration of your thoughts.

This is connected the moment you ask anything it could be your dreams, goals, desires and next step is to believe that God/Universe/Higher power is giving you without any algebra of possibilities and doubts, then the miracle happens and you receive everything in your life.

Gratitude is a secret mantra no matter what happens keep practicing gratitude if some experience is not pleasant that’s okay because that unpleasant experience is also part of a higher power plan to create magical experiences in your journey. e.g. there is a process for everything and no need to go into details just accept as a part of the plan you must have seen the chair which has also gone through so many processes before taking a shape of a chair starting from a seed, tree, cutting off the tree, etc.

The most beautiful way to practice gratitude is to compliments others for every action and yourself. Gift yourself some alone time and appreciate everything you have in your life.

Gratitude practice removes blocks of doubts and negative vibes and creates magic….

Gratitude is a secret mantra and magic to crate and attracts the experiences you dream in your life…


Start programing your unconscious to achieve the goals of your life. Your unconscious is your belief system and your feelings for yourself, your internal map.

When you reprogram your unconscious you see always the positive signals which the universe is arranging for you and take everything as a part of the supreme power’s plan.

There are many ways for the programming of your unconscious like one can practice visualizations in which you visualize your success in advance and feel the happiness in your body, Affirmations is also a powerful technique to reprogram your unconscious when you continuously repeat one thing every day your subconscious will accept it as a new program, Engaged in positive self-talk and start believing that everything comes to you very easily.

You attract your success, everything is magical in your life like a higher power is behind you and gives you exactly what you are thinking of. Once you reprogram your mind with the new belief system you will see the magic in your story.

If you don’t choose a specific program for your unconscious to achieve your goal, you will face a hard time because of your old programming which is conditioned by different sources like your parents, your geographical boundaries, your religion, etc.

Nothing is impossible if you have a goal then the universe always have a plan for your goal, you simply reprogram your unconscious and see the magic… 


Communication is the most powerful technique which is successfully used in the personal coaching sessions to change the limiting beliefs. NLP is also an example of changing past experiences and limiting beliefs based on the communication of the two in the coaching session.

There is no doubt that communication has power but how one can use it effectively that matters. Communication can be simple as well as complex it depends upon the situation, emotions, feelings, belief system, etc, It is a double-edged sword that needs your presence and awareness at the moment.

Emotional awareness is also a very important ingredient for a powerful communicator. It is a must that communicator is aware of other’s emotions too while communicating because the response of others depends upon your communication which includes the words you use, your delivery, your emotions, etc.

Communication is more of a trust-building exercise and a very important tool to fight with depression and anxiety also. Better communication can make any individual a good leader and it is the key ingredient of leaders.

There is no script for better communication it needs prompt action depending upon the emotions and feelings of other individuals. When someone wants to use it as a success tool then emotional awareness is needed which needs your presence at all times on every occasion. Communication is not just the words but it needs your facial expressions, your body movements, the way you are delivering, your emotions and feelings so it is always advisable to give yourself some relaxing time if you are going to represent yourself at some events.

Mirroring and matching is a nonverbal and a very beautiful method to connect with others before communication starts. Anyone can be a better communicator if one is aware and decided.

Communication is the best healing method for past experiences. No damage is as big as one can’t talk, secondly when one decides to talk then communication is the best way which a neutral response.

Communication is magic and if you master your skills to communicate you create magic where ever you go in your journey….


For holding energy one must understand how to move and manipulate energy, energy is how you feel all the time in your day to day life tired, excited, happy, drained out, etc.

Generally, when people have low energy they eat more, sleep more. One can feel the energy by being present in the moment and energy is to feel yourself, your surroundings and how are you feeling in your body right now.

One must watch the balance sheet of energy e.g when you are conscious and present at the moment your energy is grounded and neutral, sometimes you may feel attraction or repulsion and experience the energetic charge, or when you are very happy or sad that too is a discharge of energy.

In your life, you must have experience either at the start of the day or anytime in the day after meeting some people or exchange of messages or in certain situations that your energy is depleted. We all have learned in school that energy is neither created nor destroyed so it is our responsibility to manage our energy.

When you keep energy in an open system it will flow or when energy is depleted it can damage the system and can bring so many disasters to one’s life. So it is your responsibility to hold your energy and move it to the open system and let it flows and you already know that energy flows where your focus is.

Everything is interconnected and it’s a cycle. The secret is to be conscious and feel everything to direct your energy to create.

The day you become conscious of the energy you will solve the Zig saw of game energy and master the skills to direct your energy. Thoughts too are a part of energy to be conscious of your thought process and manage it to balance the energy…


Everything that happens in your life is your karma, all actions you take in your life is your karma. Our birth is the result of already manifested karma, your body, the color of your skin, the color of your eyes, the family you are born in, your gender, your religion, etc.

There starts the journey of life where you have endeavors, dreams, desires to fulfill and every action you take brings the reaction which is your karma. The actions you take are your karma it can bring either a good reaction or bad reaction to you depending upon your intentions while performing any action(karma).

The happiness you are experiencing or the challenges you experience is the result of your past karma and your future will decide your present karmas. To achieve your goal, dreams, happiness focus on your present karma.

All the actions you perform right now will result in your future happiness, achievements, failures, distress, etc. Many times people relate karma with destiny but with this belief, they misguide themselves while performing any action and their ignorance will hold all their actions which is their present karma, and based on their present karma they decide their future.

Focus on karma has to do with the actions of present and intentions while performing present actions because your future is based on present karma. The moment you understand the relation between karma the action and intention while delivering that action, then you decide your destiny by yourself.

Set the focus of your life on your karma and see how everything changes for you like a fairy tale…Karma is everything when it has supported intentions…Focus on karma…


Thoughts are like a cycle and our list which we create unconsciously for the universe to arrange our life similar to thoughts.

Thoughts are the limiting believes we hold for our self and the opportunities available. In a similar way the cycle of negative thoughts to create our life.

All human beings need to take one step to avoid situations or people who have negative thinking or are capable of finding reasons to worry in every situation. It is not always possible to avoid people if they are in your close circle but you can always refuse to engage them in any conversation, smartest move as per the study of emotional intelligence is simply acknowledged their comments and move on.

These days social media, news channels play an important role and very strongly influence our thoughts and feelings. Cut yourself from social media and news if you are in the process of redirecting your thoughts to get the desired result.

Look for the positive in every situation and be in the present moment. Past is already gone and future yet has to come but your present moment is creating the thoughts which will create your future.

Focus on the present and your feelings which is the main ingredient for the mind factory to create thoughts. All successful people know this secret and already using it in their lives to attract their desired result while redirecting their thoughts…

Rest is not your responsibility universe has an abundance and you can attract anything with your thoughts…

Only you are responsible for you…

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There are moments in your life journey when you feel discouraged or you have a feeling that God has not given you enough reason to live playfully or celebrate happiness or God is partial etc.

In your journey at that moment start counting your blessings give the name to your blessings like a new sunrise etc you will be surprised to witness the doubts vanishing from your journey as they were never there and you will be singing the songs of happiness, success because the secret of your life is disclosed that you are the favorite creature of God/ Universe/ higher power and he is always around you.

To count your blessings is a reminder for all of the things you are grateful for them in making you what you are today and how you give directions to the law of attraction in your life.

When you count your blessing you are appreciating what you all have in your life and your perspective is very positive in the process.

You already know that energy flows to your focus and the law of attraction arranges that life for you. When you count your blessings you activate miracles in your life …

Don’t miss any opportunity to count your blessings and gratitude is the best way to count your blessings.

Start practicing gratitude every day religiously and see miracles will find you on their own…